Lawrence Public Library

Someone other than a mother, flipping the scripts on a woman's purpose and making meaning beyond motherhood, Erin S. Lane

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non fiction

Someone other than a mother

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Erin S. Lane

flipping the scripts on a woman's purpose and making meaning beyond motherhood

Is it possible to do something more meaningful than mothering? As a young Catholic girl who grew up in the American Midwest on white bread and Jesus, Erin S. Lane was given two options for a life well-lived: Mother or Mother Superior. She could marry a man and mother her own children, or she could marry God, so to speak, and mother the world's children. Both were good outcomes for someone else's life. Neither would fit the shape of hers. Interweaving Lane's story with those of other women--including singles and couples, stepparents and foster parents, the infertile and the ambivalent--Someone Other Than a Mother challenges the social scripts that put moms on an impossible pedestal and shame childless women and nontraditional families for not measuring up. With candor and verve, Someone Other Than a Mother tears up the shaming social scripts that are bad for moms and non-moms alike and rewrites the story of a life well-lived, one in which purpose is bigger than body parts, identity is fuller than offspring, and legacy is so much more than DNA. --, From publisher's website

Preface: Mother or Mother Superior -- Movement I. Discerning a life well-lived. "Your biological clock is ticking" -- "Home is your highest duty" -- "Motherhood is the toughest job" -- Movement II. Fashioning a life well-lived. "But you'd make a great mom" -- "Children are a gift from God" -- "It'll be different with your own" -- Movement III. Savoring a life well-lived. "You'll regret not having kids" -- "Family is the greatest legacy" -- "You don't know love until you become a mother"

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